But I mean all the commercial ETL solutions already have this. The details differ, but I think they all tick the boxes.
dbt - code is done via VSCode and managed via git, Job Orchestration is done via Airflow or Dagster
Fivetran - its more of an ELT cloud hosted solution only, and not near real time cases.
Talend, Alteryx - Its a drag and drop first solution. Then comes IDE
My personal work experience - In my current job I was tasked to build dashboard platform which supports near real time sync. I've Postgres as main DB, Elastic search for dashboarding. Due to this near-real time requirement I had to choose a very niche library `pgsync`. Then immediately I rewrote the library again why because pgsync doesn't detect granular change and is tied to redis. Whereas I had rabbitmq as the middle layer for CDC.
The statement "dbt - code is done via VSCode" I found weird. I have used dbt but never VSCode.