You just need to be a good consumer and buy that iPhone that Verizon orders you to have with their blessing.
What are some of the innovations you're referring to?
And MVNOs.
2/3g deprecation and VoLTE is precisely because US carriers are pushing forward with new tech.
"CDMA" networks built on proprietary Qualcomm cdma2000 standards used its equivalent of eSIM, and that was why it required special trusted phones for OTA programming. It was also used by Verizon which IIUC had better coverage than others so lots of people would have had memories of having to go through something akin to Apple activation.
See https://www.att.com/scmsassets/support/wireless/devices-work...
To be whitelisted, the phones need to go through onerous testing process that goes way beyond just checking for network compatibility.
Regardless, my point is that the situation has vastly changed over the past 20 years. It wasn't that long ago that you could walk into carrier's store in the US and literally every phone that was allowed on the network was on the shelf.
Looks like they also support up to Xperia 10 V & there is the Jolla C2 community device:
Recently I bought another to have a spare. Cost me 50 €.