How do you tell when you've hit a cycle?
> hopefully design your language semantics to discourage cycles
Why? Cyclical structures can be very useful. For example, it can be very handy in many situations for a contained object to have a back-pointer to its container.
[UPDATE] Two responses have now pointed out that this particular case can be handled with weak pointers. But then I can just point to a general graph as an example where that won't work.