What does this part mean? For example 57.
The standard divisibility rule for 3, 6 and 9 in base 10 is to sum the digits until you only have one left and check if it's one of those. Here, 5+7=12, 1+2=3, so 57 is divisible by 3.
Math is crazy!... still don't want to study it though!
123456 = 1 * 100000 + 2 * 10000 + 3 * 1000 + 4 * 100 + 5 * 10 + 6 = 1 * (99999+1) + 2 * (9999+1) + 3 * (999+1) + 4 * (99+1) + 5 * (9+1) + 6
When checking whether it is a multiple of some k, you can add/subtract multiples of k without changing the result, and those 99...9 are multiples of both 3 and 9.
So 123456 is a multiple of 3 (or 9) iff
1 * 1 + 2 * 1 + 3 * 1 + 4 * 1 + 5 * 1 + 6 * 1 = 1 + 2 + 3 + 4 + 5 + 6
is. Apply the same rule as often as you want -- that is, until you only have one digit left, because then it won't get simpler anymore.
(mod 3) n == n_0 + n_1*10 + n_2*10^2 + ... == n_0 + n_1 + n_2 + ...
Hence, n is divisible by 3 iff $n mod 3 == 0$ iff $(n_0 + n_1 + n_2 + ...) mod 3 == 0$.Of course, summing up the digits may not give you a 1-digit number, but it gives you a number that you know is divisible by 3 (if the original number is divisible by 3). So you can apply the same idea/process again, summing up the digits of that number, and get another number that is divisible by 3. Repeat until you end up with one digit (hence the recursion mentioned).
My fun fact is that this type of operation (repeatedly applying a child operation until you reach a fixed point) is called persistence.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Persistence_of_a_number
The fixed point here being that if you add up a list of 1 digits, you'll always reach the same number (`sum([1]) = 1`). The best known is probably the hailstone sequence.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Collatz_conjecture
I'm partial to multiplicative persistence.