Lol, in this comment chain, I, personally, shall judge all of the quality of human connection based on vibes.

Gamifying the needs depends on the intent. If you care about people wellbeing it's a force for good, if you seek to manipulate the people using advanced mechanisms it's evil.

Ultra popular romance book to balance needs of a woman is okay if the book was written by a human, and even that only as long as there is effort to connect outside of it. It's preferable to trash talk the husband behind his back over a glass of prosecco with 3 and exactly 3 friends.

Keep them coming, happy to answer. Just don't ask me for proofs, here I deal with vibes.