Yup. Live elsewhere in a Schengen country and have the spouse get citizenship there. At least they'll have proper healthcare and not be treated arbitrarily like criminals.
US has descended into a banana Republic. And I'm surprised how many people are cheering it along the way.
Americans have just seemingly become a rather cruel people.
They didn't become anything. What happened is that the Republican party turned hard towards pandering to the minority of cruel people that were always present.