While the slowness of learning of all ML is absolutely something I recognise, what you describe here:
> You can reasonably expect from a human that they will learn from their mistake, and be genuinely sorry about it which will motivate them to not repeat the same mistake in the future.
Wildly varies depending on the human.
Me? I wish I could learn German from a handful of examples. My embarrassment at my mistakes isn't enough to make it click faster, and it's not simply a matter of motivation here: back when I was commuting 80 minutes each way each day, I would fill the commute with German (app) lessons and (double-speed) podcasts. As the Germans themselves will sometimes say: Deutsche Sprache, schwere Sprache.
There's been a few programmers I've worked with who were absolutely certain they knew better than me, when they provably didn't.
One, they insisted a start-up process in a mobile app couldn't be improved, I turned it from a 20 minute task to a 200ms task by the next day's standup, but they never at any point showed any interest in improving or learning. (Other problems they demonstrated included not knowing or caring how to use automated reference counting, why copy-pasting class files instead of subclassing cannot be excused by the presence of "private" that could just have been replaced with "public", and casually saying that he had been fired from his previous job and blaming this on personalities without any awareness that even if true he was still displaying personality conflicts with everyone around him).
Another, complaining about too many views on screen, wouldn't even let me speak, threatened to end the call when I tried to say anything, even though I had already demonstrated before the call that even several thousand (20k?) widgets on-screen at the same time would still run at 60fps and they were complaining about order-of 100 widgets.