> You're begging the question.
No, I am addressing the question, which is whether present psychological research is or is not scientific.
> It absolutely is possible to have well-designed studies that address these topics.
Not ethically, no -- not possible. Prospective double-blind studies are virtually unheard of in psychology because of ethical issues.
> It's how we know anything about depression, anxiety, happiness, motivation, etc. etc.
Yes, true, which is why, in a scientific sense, we don't know anything about these topics. For example, it has recently been determined by way of a meta-analysis that the many antidepressant studies, taken as a whole, contradict each other, and the conclusion is that antidepressants don't work:
Title: "Initial Severity and Antidepressant Benefits: A Meta-Analysis of Data Submitted to the Food and Drug Administration":
Link: http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=faulty-circ...
A quote: "Meta-analyses of antidepressant medications have reported only modest benefits over placebo treatment, and when unpublished trial data are included, the benefit falls below accepted criteria for clinical significance."
In layman's language, "there is no scientific evidence to support the conclusion that antidepressants actually do anything."
The above study did something quite clever -- it combined studies that the drug industry published, with studies that were paid for and conducted but then suppressed. The outcome for this combination, i.e. all such studies, is that there is no meaningful statistical difference between an antidepressant and a placebo.