Well more like it's hard to design software that is both secure-by-default and non-onerous to the end users (including devs). Every time I've tried to deploy non-trivial software systems to highly secure setups it's been a tedious nightmare. Nothing can talk to each other by default. Sometimes the filesystem is immutable and executables can't run by default. Every hole through every layer must be meticulously punched, miss one layer and things don't work and you have to trace calls through the stack, across sockets and networks, etc. to see where the holdup is. And that's not even including all the certificate/CA baggage that comes with deploying TLS-based systems.