Wonder if DDR5 ECC ram has the same problem? I'm meaning the real ECC stuff, not the "on chip only ECC" that all DDR5 has.
That being said, it's not hard to get a hold of a reasonably modern DDR5 EPYC board. Something like this: https://www.phoronix.com/review/gigabyte-mz33-ar1
Expensive though.