The one neat trick to end extreme poverty is to give women full and equal rights, most importantly, bodily autonomy.
In societies where they are effectively slaves (and breeders), they are not part of the economy and therefore cannot add to it.
And then there's just the humanitarian part of it too...
https://unfoundation.org/blog/post/3-essential-issues-to-empower-women-and-end-poverty/
https://caribbean.unfpa.org/en/news/empower-rural-women-%E2%80%93-end-hunger-and-poverty-1
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8293807/Either way, only education can change things. Both men and women (boys and girls) need to be educated about better ways and how to cooperate to provide for their families together.