No it isn't, and it's frustrating when the "common wisdom" tries to boil it down to this. If this was true, then the models with "infinitely many" parameters would be amazing. What about just training a gigantic two-layer network? There is a huge amount of work trying to engineer training procedures that work well.

The actual reason is due to complex biases that arise from the interaction of network architectures and the optimizers and persist in the regime where data scales proportionally to model size. The multiscale nature of the data induces neural scaling laws that enable better performance than any other class of models can hope to achieve.