Custom Software can cost a variable of extreme prices, depending on who's building it and exactly what is wanted out of the custom software.
What's so ludicrous about that?
Maybe read the article and not just the title?
You can get a fully functional well polished fart button app for both iOS and Android made for less than $4k, but I doubt you could make something like the Facebook app on even one platform for $400k.
But no iOS dev worth their salt is gonna' do that.
Custom houses is something that people are familiar with. It's an incredibly stressful and unpredictable undertaking for most people. But compared to custom software, its nothing. A custom house might cost 20% more than what was expected. It might take twice as long. Software might cost 2000% more than expected and the end result might be nothing like what the buyer though they were going to get.