Before Intel 8087 and the IEEE 754 standard, any decent floating-point unit generated overflow exceptions and underflow exceptions, which had to be handled by the programmer, unless the default behavior of crashing the program was acceptable.
Intel 8087 and the standard based on it have offered to the lazy programmers the option to not handle the exceptions, in which case overflow exceptions generate infinities and the underflow exceptions generate denormals.
When the exceptions are not handled, it is supposed that the programmer will check the final results of a long computation, and if infinities and denormals are not desired, but they exist nonetheless in the results, the programmer will investigate the reason and then the bug will be fixed.
So anyone is free to ensure that no denormals will ever appear in an application , by enabling the underflow exception. If it is desired that the program must not crash, then the program must be written carefully, so that underflows are impossible.
There is no correct way of eliminating denormals, except throwing exceptions on underflows.
The flush denormals to zero on output and interpret denormals as zero on input behaviors are not permissible in any program that must produce correct results. Anyone who uses -ffast-math or similar options for compiling a program that is not intended for graphics or ML/AI, where errors supposedly do not matter, makes an unforgivable mistake.
Unfortunately, "-ffast-math" enables a very large number of compilation options. A part of them are safe and they can cause a great increase in performance, like using fused multiply-add instructions. Others not only are dangerous, like flushing denormals to zero, but they also provide negligible performance increase on many processors.
Therefore, instead of aggregate options like "-ffast-math" one must enable only some of the component options, for maximum performance, without affecting result accuracy. For example, in gcc and clang one must use "-ffp-contract=fast", for enabling FMA instructions.