If "query" doesn't imply intent by the user, it ceases to be a useful word. You can acrobat your way to imagine a digital system has agency to ask a question before it receives bits, but then any transfer of data could be called a query.

When I post this http request containing this reply, you could say my machine is querying the server to ask "what did you do with the message I just gave you", but then query stops having any useful semantic value to distinguish it from "request"

Regardless, this is tangential. I don't disagree that a lot of LLM use is not in pursuit of knowledge, but enough of it is for me to think that preferring LLMs not to exist is a hard position to defend, at least without making the case for existential doom.