In my experience, spontaneity is more interesting, exciting and conversation inducing than preplanning stuff. Forcing consistency is boring, I find. No genuine friendship group requires a schedule.
Ok but do you work from home and travel ? spontaneity sounds nice and is amazing but it is a lot easier when you’re already part of some group like a work environment or co working space or church. I do talk to random people from coffee shops but it’s not the same. I think spontaneity comes from having some central environment where you can be spontaneous from. I’ve had that when I’ve lived next door or in the same building as my friends, but the building/neighborhood was still the anchor