> all you have to do to make is pleasant
This is an assumption about what I find unpleasant and why. I take it you think "reading information" and "understanding instructions" are some of those things I don't like. Your conclusion that I must not understand is based on that assumption.
The assumption is wrong.
If you can grant me that, my problem looks different. If you can't or won't, my summary was right.
People do have genuine troubles with these behaviors when they don't grasp what's going on well enough. These troubles go away pretty much entirely once they do. I think explaining them is the only thing one could write in such thread that will be useful to anyone, as the Git's UX already does make a pretty good effort to help the user orient themselves in these cases and has been visibly improving in this regard over time.
It's not some deep or interesting idea, but it needs to be repeated any time "git gud" is used as an excuse for Git's UX, which is always.
It's uncanny how a completely different community can have discussions this similar. I wonder if somebody wrote an article like "Git is Dark Souls of VCS, here's 10 reasons why". It could become a hit in both communities (poor potential author, would he even live through that?)
EDIT: I'm doomed. The moment I saw ChatGPT generate this: https://klibert.pl/statics/jolly_collaboration.png ("using GUI frontends is to Git veterans like using summons for Souls veterans") I knew I must write that post; the commonalities are just too funny to pass on :)