We (rsync.net) are based entirely on the FreeBSD platform, and have been since we first offered offsite backup in 2001. Our principals have been server and desktop users since 1998.
Further, we built JohnCompanies (the first VPS provider)[1] entirely on FreeBSD and jail.
So with that disclaimer, we are compelled to point out that the high water mark of FreeBSD ... coherency ? completeness ? stability ? ... was 4.11 in 2005.
John Kozubik posted this long and detailed rundown of the situation in January of 2012:
http://lists.freebsd.org/pipermail/freebsd-hackers/2012-Janu...
http://lists.freebsd.org/pipermail/freebsd-hackers/2012-Janu...
and there was much agreement and nodding of heads. $50k over five years was committed by Kozubik to support a new development trajectory:
http://lists.freebsd.org/pipermail/freebsd-hackers/2012-Janu...
There is a good litmus test going forward. If you see 8.4-RELEASE, and see 8.x supported as "production" and not "legacy" well into the 9.x lifecycle, things are getting better.
If you see 10.2 and 11.0 and so on before you see 8.4 or 8.5 then FreeBSD is just a research project.
[1] Yes, Verio was doing that weird virtualization thing with their e10ks (or whatever it was), but in October of 2001 we were the first to make available what anyone today would recognize as a "VPS".