I also never seen anyone claiming that you doesn’t have to know SQL and ORM is enough from the opposite side.
If you really run into spot where your ORM breaks you can always drop to SQL. If you build project „SQL first” you robbed yourself from ORM upsides and you are bound to badly implement your own one in the long run.
You can use well known library that more people will comfortably using
or
given enough time you will build crooked, half baked ORM of your own.
There are reasonable arguments for leaving most to the db; effectively exposing some VIEWs and FUNCTIONs as the application interface for any and all bindings. Like legacy java and greenfield php for example.
I'd say it's different work rather than strictly more work.