It's not bad in moderation. Sugar is much more addictive and harmful than alcohol, and it's also fine in moderation.
Your post about obesity doesn't imply it's all about sugar.
One of the reasons obesity is such an issue is because of the combination of sweet and savoury foods that are very calories dense and not very satiating.
Says who?
Go check how much sugar is dissolved in soda, it’s more that a spoonful and ask yourself why? .
Your “counterargument” supports the argument that you quoted though. People can't eat spoonfuls of sugar, but they can drink it when dissolved in flavorful, acidic water.
The thing is that it's impossible to moderate one's intake as, as you said, it's addictive.