Yeah I sympathize with this, but I’ve experienced the other side of this: I ran into a bug (an integration for home assistant has to be manually kicked every time HA restarts due to a bug in the integration) that my AI fixed with a one-liner. It works great for me. I submitted a PR which is languishing for weeks. No problem. My AI will just maintain a personal fork with my patch until my PR gets merged (or not). Previously it was way too much work maintaining your own fork, merging in upstream changes, and keeping your patch working.
I think this is going to be a common outcome from the fact that many people have AI agents that can one-shot fix and deploy. Maybe it’s not a bad thing for those people and the maintainers who each get what they want.