my take on linux distros being annoyed by their own policies is that perhaps they should change the policy. in this case, perhaps they should pretend uv-build updates once a month or something.
for example, they seem to be fine doing a quick sed on pyproject.toml (https://gitweb.gentoo.org/repo/gentoo.git/tree/dev-python/pa...) or patching stuff for compat (https://gitweb.gentoo.org/repo/gentoo.git/tree/dev-python/as...)
This is what i mean when it seems typical for a distro to monkey around with packages and/or their build system. These were just the first two packages i clicked on in dev-python. maybe others are "pure upstream", but there's definitely the capability here to just... not have the problem?