So if you're a developer of OSS and released something that _already has inflicted_ a measurable negative outcome for me -- that's okay.
But if I in response say "I don't like, I'm going to fork and use that software without that feature" -- that's a threat to the dev?
I'd say it's very much double standards, especially since in that case the negative action in the original software has already happened and is already negatively impacting the people considering the fork.
And you're saying that them, by wanting to cease it, are the bad guys.