Think about it: 20 years ago you weren't a hateful person, that also changed. Why not get back to an older version of yourself? I'm sure at the time you thought things were amazing, there was already a bunch of frustrated middle aged men hating what you now love and miss.
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50173992
Of course having seen this you will still glaze your eyes over and insist nobody has ever made the accusations I claimed they did. Because none of this is about discussion but beating people into submission.
Tellingly, your response to that exact question was “just get over it.” No. Sometimes you also must consider views you don’t hold.
That's why the actual fascists like AfD have become so strong. Destroying the middle ground only serves the extremists.
I made the claim that Europeans have a right to miss times and places that have gone by. The responses have all been to either suggest this is problematic for unstated reasons or to journey off as you did into a truly unrelated land of non sequitur.