There is both ux and and graphic design and they both have their place. Saddly far too often one wins out over another instead of finding balance.
you mean "actually methodically studying users is boring and requires competence"
these people only care about making pretty pictures, they dont care about the actual effort to deliver a good product.
i remember the studies used to design windows 95
nothing modern ux amateurs do can compare to the oldschool HCI professionals
With a maximized or suitably positioned window, pushing the mouse all the way to the right of the screen activates the scroll bar. To the top right activates the close button.
Small things, but they become annoyances when they are missing.