The Apple TV one drives me insane. The selected button is so subtly raised that it takes a lot to see. Usually I need to move it back and forth and look for the motion.
it really baffles me that Apple lets this happen with a design system/framework that has had years of battle testing. Clearly it's not working if today's apps are all insanely hard to use on a daily basis. Users that are power users. The system needs to protect us from app devs being able to ship stuff this hard to use. The remote is not helping of course.
My father can't even use the apple tv box I got him because the UI is so difficult to see. It's maddening.