Society often demonizes victims (like in Ohio) or Claims "victimhood" while banking billions. It's all very sick.
Of course, this was an extreme case. I was driving on a 60 mph 7% or so downgrade when a deer lept onto the highway at 11 a.m., an extremely unlikely case. It resulted in a lot of damage. My best guess is that some other animal flushed it out. I was too busy dealing with broken glass to check on it.
But more generally, we should withhold judgment when we just don't know. A lot of self-help books say so. Like the "maniac" rushing through traffic, drawing the anger of everyone else. They may be rushing to the hospital. How do I know? I've done it, when my wife had sepsis and every second counted.
I get your logic 100% but it just sounds bad to me. Must be the wording.
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