It's fine to imagine what your lunch looks like, even if that makes you feel that your dietary privacy has been violated.
Well, maybe _you_ do.
This issue isn't black and white, and you're casting unearned aspersions. We should have this conversation, in actual good faith.
1. It’s not
2. An analogy is not the same thing as saying women are like x
Remember those “A is to B as C is to D” SAT questions? Did you read them and think they were telling you that A = C?