An alernative, it could also be the case that all of the model developers are using distillation to improve their models while crying do as I say, and not as I do.
Or the answer is even easier. There is public data consisting of chat transcripts with ChatGPT, Claude and DeepSeek, and all AI providers train on that data. You don't need distillation for the text "I am ChaGPT/Claude/DeepSeek" to often appear in your trraining data.