(Keep in mind that pushing relational databases to 10k writes/sec is not optimal! Well before you get to that point, there are much more cost-effective options.)
On to a few other nits...
> 10k writes a second is a problem that a very small number of systems have relative to all deployed web servers, the normal case is far closer to HN.
Hmm ... I would estimate that the majority of deployed servers today use a distributed database, operating out of clusters for e.g. Google, Meta, Amazon, Netflix, Microsoft, CDN operators, and so on.
And, of course, HackerNews is also using distributed databases, so it's not a great counterexample...
> Re HN using other systems for search and api, that’s more related to supporting companies the vc funded - Algolia
HN uses Google BigQuery to support a company they VC funded? Anyway, this is "no true Scotsman"-ing databases.