It's funny. When Apple goes in and changes peoples systems deeply without consent then it's Apple being evil. When they don't, it's Apple being evil. Heads I win, tails you lose.
Morality doesn't solely depend on action or inaction, it also matter what you act or don't act to.
Besides, how does this relate to my Linux point, where no one installs anything without you knowing it?
How is that worse than NOT having any sort of fix from Apple?