You just called an extremely stressed woman who was about to lose her job and get deported, with cognitive deficits stemming from epilepsy, "stupid". Even worse, that woman is now dead.

I have temporal lobe epilepsy. It took years to get the meds dialed in. When seizures are occurring, and in between, you are cognitively impaired. Add major stress to that and it's a recipe for poor decision making and lack of agency.

Now go take a good look in a mirror, and consider the kind of person you're looking at.