You must be mistaking me for someone else, I'm not in any position to enforce anything onto anyone.

With that, sometimes the society needs to pick one option out of several, like what side of the road to drive. The options are not ideal, however not picking any side whatsoever would quickly lead to an unmitigated disaster. If you feel like the society is forcing you to do things against your will, you can move to an uninhabited island and not march to any beat of anyone's drum but your own.