Th truck has a charge port and a plug panel.
You charge via the charge port and power your home via the outlet panel.
>4. When solar production exceeds house consumption, the extra goes to the electric vehicle.
Through the charge port via a charger.
>5. When house consumption exceeds solar production, the extra comes from the electric vehicle.
From the 240V outlet in the bed.
The place where you would probably run aground if anything is the need to plug in two seperate cables, and perhaps fords software, as their are some quirks with how ford handles providing power to the outlets. However if you really are determined, there are ways to hack the CAN bus to get around all this.
Another downside is that the batteries are NMC, so more touchy about charging and more sensitive to cycling often.