Take home $22k a month
$10k on a swanky place like
https://www.zillow.com/apartments/san-francisco-ca/490-avenu...
or
https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/727-Moraga-St-San-Francis...
$3k on childcare https://familychildcaresf.com/child-care-san-francisco/
Leaving $9k a month