> Are you suggesting boys are less empathetic than girls?
Let me leave this for you:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33846514/
Girls exhibit greater empathy than boys following a minor accident Joyce F Benenson et al. Sci Rep. 2021.
ABSTRACT
Hundreds of studies find that girls and women report feeling greater empathy than boys and men in response to adverse events befalling others.
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These behavioral results suggest that an adverse event produces different subjective experiences in females than males that motivate objectively different behaviors, consistent with findings from self-report measures of empathy.