Some of the things you described about the bot reversing decisions after you question it and how it randomly deletes files based on your responses - it sounds rather unrealistic.
I haven’t experienced anything like that. My first inclination is to shout: skill issue. Because steering these language models is our responsibility. Reading 10 files doesn’t lead to 10% usage gone even on my $20 subscription. Try talking to your internet friends and find a better way to steer these agents.