I am a Ruby programmer and let it be clear, the holier-than-thou attitude can indeed be pervasive in the Ruby community.
Yet, most of the proselytism int the Ruby community are different shades of "Programming with this language makes me very happy, I'd like everyone to be happy as well". Of course it's not always as clear cut and there is sometimes much to be desired in terms of behavior. But that's where the Haskell in MY PERSONAL OPINION (so to take with a pinch of salt) is slightly different in how it seems to be variations of "Haskell is a superior language, everyone that doesn't use it has not reached enlightenment"
TL;DR: Ruby people can be annoying like hippies can be annoying, Haskell enthusiasts I've found to be more akin to the Jehovah's witnesses of programming.
And just so we're clear, I am going on a slightly provocative/trollish bender here, one that I hope will not offend too much, it's all in good fun.