Firstly (Disclaimer) I am a Rails developer, I choose to be one right now, until (if) I find that my efforts are better spent elsewhere.
I agree with tferris to some extent. Those arguments are nonsensical to say the least.
This might be a feeling, I am not one to shout random feeling-based percentages, but I feel that people, in general, not just HN, don't realise that you can just claim things in this way. 75%? Where does that come from?
Also, the second argument is complete rubbish. By this logic anything that the masses do is better? So Earth was flat at some point in time? And yes, I think that people ARE lazy, as we should be, why use a framework otherwise? But some people are just stuck in the before mentioned comfort zone. Evidence is the popularity of Rails clones in PHP (or at least attempts at). Why not just learn Ruby and use Rails? => Fear of learning new programming languages and being new at something?
Third argument is right to a certain extent. If you need to invest a lot of trouble to make some slow code (which Ruby tends to be) faster, at what point do you choose to just use something faster? Where is the line; break even point?
I use Ruby at the moment too, but you have to remain critical and even more so, you need to reflect on your own ways of reasoning.