Like danso, I admire the detective-work here. I would like to point out, though, that XCode's Instruments utility has a fantastically useful "Leaks" mode that will identify leaked allocations, including a stack trace. It can attach to a running process and has a non-disastrous impact on performance, though like most such tools it's voracious for memory.
Other platforms likely have similar tools, though I have yet to stumble across one as easy to use.