Brb while I go make an Unofficial YC Handshake Deal Protocol app.
1. something with a trigger like Bump,
2. which then pops up an Etherpad-style collaboratively-edited text field,
3. with MMO trade-dialog style 3-phase mutual-assent commit,
4. that leads to a copy being saved on both your phones, to a public-but-anonymous URL both parties can cite, and also forwarded to any other parties which either of you please--for example, your lawyers.