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Yeah, just be tall, good looking, confident, and comfortable conversing in contrived situations like bar/cafe meetings with strangers.

Wonder why guys can't figure that out?

you can teach yourself to be confident and comfortable around women. I used to HORRIBLE back in the day.

Fake it 'til you make it. If you act like you know what you're doing for long enough, that will actually end up building confidence.

I bet your idea of a horrible dating life is most guys' idea of a Casanova style dating life, 6'8'', built, good looking guy.