The Secrets of Princeton
nytimes.com
nytimes.com
This is how 'old boys clubs' are built, and this conversation happens far more often than people realize.
Also fun to think about right now (in terms of vaguely shocking class categories/distinctions): http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-22000973
All I can say is: it's a funny old world where liking jazz makes a man higher than his fellow man.