Not saying there's not a time and place for Ryan's style.
1 - http://bhorowitz.com/2012/08/30/one-on-one/
1' - http://www.randsinrepose.com/archives/2010/09/22/the_update_...
Not saying there's not a time and place for Ryan's style.
1 - http://bhorowitz.com/2012/08/30/one-on-one/
1' - http://www.randsinrepose.com/archives/2010/09/22/the_update_...
I've done these at two different companies both with a team that I grew entirely myself and had already established friendships with before starting the 1:1s and with folks at a new job where I inherited the team. In both cases they were immensely successful in building rapport, establishing a professional-vs-personal relationship, and getting me in touch with how folks are feeling about their work & company. "How was your week?" or "You looked pretty stressed out about the latest feature requests. Everything ok?" works wonders to get people to open up.
[1] http://www.manager-tools.com [2] http://www.manager-tools.com/downloadable-forms