It really doesn't matter.
The advice has been strongly for a .com, and there have been a lot of really good reasons as to why. (In other words, my opinion has been successfully swayed.)
I think axod made a particularly good point with mibbit; 6 months ago I wouldn't have ever connected the words IRC or chat with the word "mibbit", but I do now; and I don't think I've ever forgotten the domain name.
I suppose any more people don't correlate the domain name with what it does as much as they used to.