I've never heard fake in being used in the fashion you're suggesting, which is by far the most generous interpretation of the term I've heard.
More generally, I think "fake it 'till you make it" is better reserved for selling the vision of where you want to go even if it's not completed yet. You don't have to lie, you just have to inspire.
Admittedly my interpretation is even more generous, maybe because I tend always to see the good in people ;)