The language designers have not ruled out generics, and are fully open to providing them at some point. The issue is that they have yet to find an implementation that fits within the language design goals.
Yes, if you jump on the mailing list, and propose that they somehow "use" .NETs generics, and you actually have no idea how that would be implemented, or impact the compiler and runtime, you're not going to be greeted cordially. This happens fairly frequently, and is probably why people think the community is totally against generics.
The Go team wants generics, when they find the right way to handle them within the language. In the meantime, most heavy users seem to agree that lack of generics is better than poor generics.