"Honestly, I don't believe that girls are always only thinking socially, nice and eco-friendly, while boys dream of guns and bombs." Neither do I. But I think there's a useful point she was making about thinking about the way things interact / what they allow users to do, rather than programs that work fine by themselves but do not play well with others (every morning I load a bunch of stuff and watch them steal focus from each other) and implementing features because it's quite cool that you can do this thing we'll find a use for it later (yay, bloat!).
"Also, where are the campaigns to make more men become school teachers and kindergarden workers?" I don't know. We should probably ought to have some, but expecting them to be provided by the tech industry is a little optimistic.