This attitude scares me. Some things really are hard to do. Some things really are hard to understand. Some are even both. Remember what Euclid is supposed to have said to Ptolemy I of Egypt when the king complained that geometry was hard to learn: There is no royal road to mathematics!
There's no shame in not being able to do or understand every difficult thing under the sun, but don't complain that such things "shouldn't be so hard". They often are. I think it's part of what makes life interesting.