this is standard anti-male shaming language. it ALWAYS shows up in gender discussions because it's a great way to instantly discredit anyone without actually using an argument.

notice how there isn't any actual content in the rebuttal and how it is completely infalsifiable and indefensible. it's the equivalent of dropping the c-word in an argument against a woman.

shaming language against males:

  * grow up, be a man, man up  
  * you're a virgin / inexperienced  
  * "issues with women"   
  * you're bitter   
  * you're scary   
  * you're a rapist  
  * you must be gay (not sure why people use this one) 
  * you hate women  
  * you have psychological issues